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Dating Camp Orientation

Here’s Your Dating Overview To Get Oriented

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February 7th Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari answered the question:  How do I get a sense of my date’s goals when we’re together in a coffee date?
  • Two participant received specific coaching on what needs to happen internally and the process to follow for them to reach their goal of finding the one.
  • A participant discovered a mindset shift related to having a clear date set versus just being open.
  • Bari coached a participant who wanted to get clear about dating men who have young children and if she’s being picky about not wantin to date bald men.

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January 22nd Dating Camp Q&A Session

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January 8th Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

In this eye-opening and powerful session, Bari coached a participant on what to do when feeling anxiety over not having found the one . . . yet.   By doing a powerful Challenge Your Thinking exercise around “it won’t happen for me”,  “the more time that goes by the fewer people there are to choose from” and “I’m not lucky” a blind spot emerged and the participant when from feeling hopeless  to feeling like  a weight lifted, feeling excited about dating again

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December 18th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • A participant requested support on staying positive and not feeling rejected when guys pass her over because of her 8 year old son.
  • Learn how to conquer the feelings of “fear and frustration” when dating–where it comes from and how to squash it in its tracks and that “it’s never going to happen for me.”
  • The theme was Letting Go of This Crap

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December 4th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari co-created and gave feedback to a participant about her dating profile and how it’s an invitation to the right person, not meant to “impress”
  • Bari led a discussion about what to do when you’re not meeting the one and feeling frustrated.  Getting to the root of it, the story about it and what to do instead.
  • A participant shared her pipeline and received coaching how to handle first days and knowing if you should continue. . . and how to share your core values and vision from the onset. . . and just being in the rhythm of dating

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November 20th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • ending dates with clarity and how to do it (with some new mindset distinctions)
  • searching on dating sites — We did a live session searching on Match We went over what to look for, how to narrow down and really be present to good possibilities and how many amazing people there are right under your nose
    Sometimes we don’t see them!
  • did a Challenge Your Thinking around “I must be doing it wrong . .”

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November 6th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • In this Dating Camp session several participant worked through various dating mind set issues like “It’ll never happen for me no matter what I do” to “I’m upset I haven’t met the one yet.” Powerful shifts occurred for all.

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October 23rd, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari did a Challenge Your Thinking exercise around “It won’t happen for me” when a participant’s friend got engaged and she felt sad. Tune in to discover how we turned it all around.
  • A participant shared that she met her one in the program in a short time.
  • Another participant received some coaching about how to keep her pipeline full and what’s really behind “I just don’t see anyone on dating sites that are for me– I know what I want. . . “

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October 16th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Enjoy this dating camp orientation that happened in the first 40 minutes to get you started powerfully in the program or for quick refresher
  • Bari gave feedback on a dating profile to make it really shine.
  • A participant shared the excitement of her new awesome relationship with the person that feels like the one and when to introduce him to her son.

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October 4th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on how to manage a full pipeline while raising a child and running a business as she moves forward from a relationship with someone “sweet” who didn’t make her a priority (and what to do instead).
  • Another participant asked how not to get confused about all the men in her pipeline while meeting someone flying in to see her.
  • Bari coached a participant on creating her vision when she was struggling to visualize what she wants (and was thinking of good memories with ex’s).
  • Another participant shared her new attitude since the last coaching call about maintaining amazing and positive energy when dating and how great it feels to have clarity and a process.

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September 18th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on how to not “ride the roller coaster” or feel anxious about dating to being clear and powerful instead. She got clear about next steps with the guy she’s dating who isn’t on her time line vision-wise and who doesn’t meet her emotional needs. She challenged that “she not good at dating” and should give up and went from feeling sad and disempowered to feeling clear and optimistic.
  • Another participant shared her dating pipleline and got clarity on next steps.
  • Another participant challenged her story “it’ll never happen for me no matter what I do” to getting clear on her value.

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September 5th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant through her fear of “I don’t know if it will ever happen for me” by doing a Challenge Your Thinking process.  She also received feedback about not getting triggered by her family of origin and questions about her dating status. 
  • Another participant received live co-creation and coaching to create her new Dating Profile.
  • Others received feedback on their pipelines and dates.

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August 14th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant who is dating someone who meets her emotional needs, and who shares her core values line up but concerns about his age and possible lack of financial stability masked the real reason she’s not feeling enthusiastic.
  • Another participant shared how she recently met someone who looks like he could be the one and how to manage her pipeline since she wants to be loyal.

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July 24th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on having enrollment conversations with the “right” people as well as feedback on her pipeline. She also received coaching on how to express to the guy she’s dating for a “real date” to meet in person.
  • Another participant received feedback and encouragement on her dating pipeline and new ideas for finding the right one (including mindset to do’s).
  • Bari answered questions for a participant how to know if she should go on a 2nd date and when to move on.

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July 17th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant about filling up his pipeline and how to date long distance.
  • Another participant received coaching about how to get super excited about dating again after relocating to NYC from FL and he came away motivated and reinspired.

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June 19th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant to a breakthrough around the man she was dating for 5 months and felt “guilty” about breaking it off — maybe she go back to him — tune to hear her breakthrough!
  • A participant received feedback and coaching on her question: Why do I pick men that are not available to me ? This is a recurring pattern for many years.

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June 6th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari gave feedback to a participant on his dating site photos and specific searching techniques.
  • Another participant received feedback on dating questions around recontacting women he contacted in the past, how to expand his reach, and clothing options for his upcoming shoot.
  • Bari did Challenge Your Thinking exercises with a participant who had fear around dating to get her to powerful reality-based thinking and away from being run by her blind spot and love-junkiness.

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May 23th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Join this exciting coaching call where Bari answered questions about filling your pipeline, staying in reality based and healthy dating mindset and to achieve success in finding the one.

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May 9th, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on moving past someone who was not right for him and how to fill his new pipeline (and not get stuck on any one person until it’s right).
  • A participant asked how to handle a former boyfriend who resurfaced while dating someone seriously who she hasn’t met in person yet.
  • Another participant asked what to tell men who were in her pipeline that’s no longer available since she’s dating someone wonderful.
  • A participant shared her excitement about getting new photos does and how she didn’t realize how much she needed it!

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April 25, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • A participant received feedback and coaching on closing out his most recent relationship with someone who wasn’t the right one and on getting re-started on moving forward in dating others and finding the one.
  • Bari coached participant on how to prepare to create his online dating profile.
  • Two other participants received feedback and coaching on their mindset, using all of the tools from Finding The One to stay excited and powerful instead of losing moment and balance.

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April 13, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on whether or not to rekindle a relationship with a former boyfriend who cheated on her but who has promised to change
  • Another participant received coaching on how to handle that she met someone fantastic. but feels like she needs to rush things to make the relationship solid” instead of letting things unfold naturally.

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March 27, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant to help them understand if someone they are dating is right for them.
  • Bari worked with a participant on how to feel secure in the online dating process.
  • Bari helped a client understand how to be more open with their dates.
  • Bari worked with a participant on a game plan to move forward after recently breaking up with someone she had been dating.
  • Bari helped a client re-energize her outlook on dating.

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February 27, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Tune in to this Dating Profile creation workshop where Bari co-created and gave feedback to several participants on their dating profiles!
  • A participant received feedback on her obsession with a toxic ex-boyfriend and her conflict over a new, healthy and available man she’s dating now.

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February 15, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on how to powerfully search an online dating site after feeling like “I keep seeing the people.” Tune in to discover how her less than positive attitude was affecting her search and the amazing men that were right there the whole time. . . when she could see them through a new lens.
  • Bari coached a participant on how to powerfully re-enter the dating scene after a breaking with the someone who was not good for her. This is something to celebrate!

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January 31, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a client on how to determine if his dates mesh with his core values and how to balance allowing things to flow (being vulnerable without getting burned out.
  • Bari coached a participant on how to know if someone she’s newly dating (and divorced 5 months ago) is emotionally available.
  • Bari provided feedback on his pipeline and if he should date someone who is “separated” not divorced and someone he feels connected to, but lives in another country.

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January 3, 2017 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • A participant received coaching on how not to revert to dis-empowering behavior (i.e., to stay true herself) in new relationship.
  • Bari coached a participant on how to manage her anxiety and move forward in her 4 month relationship as her boyfriend is about to relocate several hundred miles away. . . and how to strengthen the relationship after nearly breaking up.
  • Bari coached a participant on how to know if someone she’s newly dating (and divorced 5 months ago) is emotionally available.
  • A participant received feedback on her online dating profile and how to proceed with a guy who waited a month to call her and doesn’t follow up.

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December 19, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on whether or not to go on a date and be open someone who disappeared and then reappeared.
  • Another participant received feedback and coaching around her question about how to move forward with the wonderful man she’s dating now given a certain situation.
  • Bari edited a participant’s online profile to express who she is, her values and goals most powerfully.
  • Another participant wanted to make sure that she wasn’t living her “old story” after dating a man for 2 months who was emotionally unavailable to her. Check out the surprising answer.
  • A participant shared how the exciting news that she’s dating someone wonderful and that she would never have recognized or been open to him before the program.

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December 12, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on what she can do dating-wise while healing from a procedure.
  • Another participant received coaching on how to communicate with her boyfriend who is not responding to her request to join her at her company holiday party. She received feedback to validate her question — am I crazy to want this or is his behavior avoidant?
  • Bari answered the following questions:
    • How do I stay positive when date flake and stand me up?
    • Can you give me some tips on having first conversations over the phone about what to listen for?
    • How many people do you suggest searching for and dating at the same time?
    • Isn’t it unfeminine to inititate a second date? Isn’t it the man’s role?

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November 28, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari edited a participant’s dating profile that totally expresses WHO she is and the depth of her vision
  • A participant who was feeling stress and pressure around her date to marry was coached through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise that led her to feeling peaceful and empowered.
  • Bari coached a participant about a new guys shes dating and excited about to check in to see if he’s a really great match in spite of personal challenges he’s upfront about. So striking is how visible and clear she’s being.
  • Another participant shared how she notices that she really needs a guy who shares her vision of adventure and someone she’s really inspired by. Bari coached her on managing dating fatigue when out there alone.
  • Bari also coached a new dating camper on dating etiquette, what to say when people contact her. . . and getting in the flow of dating.
  • Wherever you are in the process,you’re in the right place. Dating with self love, a plan, committed action and faith and one ordinary day, it will happen!

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November 14, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari answered two questions; first about how to handle guys who flake after a phone call but then pop up again a couple of weeks later and second how best to present a jswipe profile given that it’s shorter than a regular Meet to Marry profile.
  • Two participants received coaching on getting complete and moving forward powerfully after a breakup, One after a two month long relationship with someone she hada lot of hope for and another person in a six month relationship.

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October 31, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant who asked how to handle a situation where she was getting to know someone she likes whose brother died without being a caretaker–and giving him space while she continues to fill her pipeline.
  • A participant shared how she contacted a guy she was dating who “disappeared” to discover that he was sick and super busy and feeling empowered for speaking up as in the past she wouldn’t have.
  • Another participant received coaching on creating a fuller pipeline and how the quality of her dates has vastly improved.
  • A participant received coaching on whether or not to see someone again that she is not sure she’s attracted to.

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October 20, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • In this session, hear 3 participants share their experience in dating a per son who could be the one!
  • Hear how one participant overcomes negativity and “concerns” of people in her life and learns to trust her gut and be true to herself in order to lean in to the guy who’s fully present and meeting her needs for the first time ever!

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October 10, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Listen to the replay of this wonderful Q&A session where we discussed how to successfully stay in a healthy mindset of dating! A special session not to be missed.

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September 26, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

In this powerful session, Bari coached participants on their pipelines and answered the following questions using Dating Camp tools

  • I sent 30 emails and no responses back. I don’t know if I’m following exactly what to write and reading people’s things. I don’t know if it’s my profile turning people off.
  • Should I meet men who won’t want pay for plane ticket?
  • If a guy doesn’t call me at the specific time we agreed on, or he calls me 20 minutes late, should I entertain the call or eliminate him?

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September 19, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari did a search with a participant on JDate showing her how to fill her pipeline, what criteria to use and a practical mindset for success.
  • A participant received coaching on her specific pipeline about what to say to a date who isn’t on the same timelime, a person who doesn’t follow though on his work and keeping a good balance on her pipelinqe without feeling overwhelmed.
  • Several other participants shared their pipelines and breakthroughs since starting Dating Camp. A participant shared that since starting the program he feels super empowered even beyond dating and uses Challenge Your Thinking to stay there.
  • Another participant shareqd her progress on her new light colored wardrobe for taking her dating profile photos and how people notice her new, empowered attitude.

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September 12, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking to free her from suffering when a date rejected her and said they weren’t a match.
  • Another participant received coaching on how compliment her dating site searching to create a fuller pipeline.
  • Bari answered this question: Should I attend meet up events that are mostly women in the hope they’ll introduce me to men?She also received coaching on which dating sites to use when first starting, how to handle a negative family member. whether or not to date while on vacation and a strategy for dating when you live in a remote area.
  • Another participant received coaching on how to close the door to someone who is not meeting her emotional needs.
  • Bari coached a participant on how to discuss her living situation and next steps with her boyfriend in an empowered way.

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August 29, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on the best strategies for creating her pipeline, including how many people to aim reach out to, to get results and how many dates to aim for every week.
  • Another participant received coaching on how to articulate her vision to the guy she’s in a relationship with–who could be the one!

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August 22, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

Join this special session with 30 minutes of tips and straight talk on how to experience success in Dating Camp.

  • Then, Bari did 2 spot light sessions where she answered questions about how to make great choices on dating sites, how to know if you’re attracted beyond the photos and how many emails to send to maintain a full pipeline.

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August 15, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant through moving forward in a healthy way past a break up with someone who wasn’t the one.
  • A participant received coaching and empowering feedback about getting back into the dating world after some time away.

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August 8, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on how to recover quickly from a break-up with someone who wasn’t meeting her needs and how to move on in a quick and healthy way.
  • Another participant received coaching on whether or not she should be dating now given she hasn’t created the intention or set a date yet because she’s experiencing a whole new healthy way of thinking with with less anxiety, clarity around her fears and choosing next steps.
  • Another participant shared her concerns about a relationship she’s in where she’s feeling overwhelmed and receiving coaching on next steps.

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July 25, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant through fear that” it will not happen for her” knowing it is irrational.
  • Another participant received coaching on whether or not she should be dating now given she hasn’t created the intention or set a date yet because she’s experiencing a whole new healthy way of thinking with with less anxiety, clarity around her fears and choosing next steps.
  • Another participant shared her concerns about a relationship she’s in where she’s feeling overwhelmed and receiving coaching on next steps.

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July 18, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on overcoming self sabotaging and if it’s okay to date seriously and also throw caution to the wind with “casual smooching.”
  • Other participants shared their pipelines and received coaching and feedback on how to maintain a full and wonderful pipeline of like minded dates.

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July 11, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • The first 40 minutes was a Dating Camp Orientation
  • Bari coached a participant about how to have conversations about her financial picture without “scaring” people off.
  • A participant received coaching on how to proceed with her current relationship and how much time to give it before deciding if he is the one and whether to move forward or move on.
  • Bari coached a participant on his dating pipeline and how to a date he was scheduled to go on when he’s really not excited.

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June 27, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

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June 20, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant who is regrouping from a breakup and clearing the space for the one who is ready for her now.
  • A participant shared his breakthroughs, what’s he’s noticed about becoming vulnerable and got clarity on his old story.
  • Bari answered a question from a participant about her fear of having someone lose interest in her and how to handle various dating scenarios.
  • Another participant received coaching about what to do if an ex-boyfriend contacts her when she’s clearly moved on.
  • Bari coached a participant on how to know if the guy she’s dating could be the one.  She had questions about assessing great qualities, how to know if she’s not settling and values versus interests.
  • Another participant shared her ‘aha’ moments regarding her dating life.

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June 6, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

We had a great Dating Camp Q&A today.

  • Bari answered 5 important dating questions for a participant.
  • A participant received coaching around her career and created balanced plan for love. She shared “there are so many amazing men out there!” Yes there are!
  • We busted through some big anxieties and fears by doing a Challenge Your Thinking exercise with another participant. Change Your Thinking, change your life.

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May 23, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on mindset when she asked about finding more men in their 50’s. 1-She shared that she’s clearer than ever 2-feeling more confident than ever and in the zone 3-and attracting higher quality men! You’re doing amazing! Woo hoo 
  • Another participant received coaching on a new dating strategy and brand new ways of finding her beloved-by getting feedback on outer things and making  a new plan on dating long distance.
  • A participant shared that she’s doing the inner work and when she does, her reality literally shifts and she shared great examples. That’s growing up and being an attraction magnet! So proud! Big breakthrough.
  • Another participant received feedback on having authentic conversations about being herself with guys who may “talk over you” and what she can say to see how things mesh
  • Another participant shared her resilience  as she become clear that her guy wasn’t all in and received coaching and feedback on her new plan for moving forward.
  • Another participant shared about what happened after revisiting self-care and re-looking at some FTO things — making some inner shifts that you’re attracting new and wonderful possibilities almost naturally!

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May 16, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on speed dating conversations and how to dress.
  • Another participant received coaching on getting back to her center and balanced when feeling down about dating.
  • A participant received coaching and got to see that the person she’s dating is not the one as he’s not committed and all in.

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May 9, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari did a Challenge Your Thinking exercise with a participant to assist her in overcoming irrational fear in a healthy way.
  • Another participant received on how to know when “giving someone a chance” is not the right way to go.
  • Bari answered a participants question about his pipeline and what to do when dates won’t confirm a time to go out.
  • Bari answered the following questions:
    • How to guide my predate conversations to marriage vision, goals, and getting a better sense of the person’s values. 
    • How to ask a date point blank what they are looking for in marriage or relationship without forcing the issue and losing the flow of conversation. 
    • How to guide coffee dates to important topics without coming across as too pushy.
    • How not to get discouraged when men reread my profile after setting up a date and tell me they don’t want the same things as I do.
    • How do I approach social parties, events that are not Jewish and find the Jewish guys and not waste time with the men who are not Jewish that I will not date? Is there any tricks you know to work the room?

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May 2, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant and got to the root of why she attracting people she can’t connect with and how to get back to having the inner space to attract the right ones.  
  • A participant received coaching on how to know if someone is the one and to move past someone she dated who wasn’t the one.
  • Bari gave a participant feedback on her online dating profile.

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April 25, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on searching on dating sites and answered his questions:  How to respond to those who have viewed/favorited me, how not to reveal too much/too fast about problems  within myself and being honest at the same time and how to be honest with women about loving their kids/grandkids but wanting to be first priority if I am to be their partner.
  • A participant received feedback on his dating plan, specific dates and how to approach meeting/matching women faster.
  • Bari also answered these two questions from a participant: Should I bother calling back matchmakers who feed into my dis-empowering story, who have that doom and gloom out look ,but know a lot of people? Also, when I contact a guy on a dating site & he responds but doesn’t really suggest speaking on the phone, should I take the initiative? I feel like the guy should say that if he’s interested, but sometimes they just continue an email conversation.
  • Bari gave 2 participants feedback on their dating profile.
  • Another participant received kudos for dating someone who may be the one!

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April 18, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • A participant received coaching on Dating Himself.
      • Bari gave feedback to a participant on her online dating profile.
      • Several other dating questions were answered and a celebration was shared of having met her one.

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April 11, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

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April 4, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • A participant shared that she met her one after only a few weeks of making space and breakthroughs in Finding the one!
      • Bari coached a participant on being super confident when dating and what it takes to generate a lot of dates and a full pipeline.
      • Two participants received feedback on their online dating profiles.

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March 21, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Amazing practical coaching around dating including coffee date and first date conversations, how to end dates with clarity or how to express you’d like to meet again, how to know if you should meet again, how to assess “who the person is’ versus having a good time and how to close off and ex-you just can’t shake off.
      • A participant receiving coaching around how to handle and move away from the familiy of origin shame she carries and how it affecting her dating with

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March 14, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari answered questions about reentering the dating scene after a break up.
  • A participant shared his enthusiasm to start dating after a big breakthrough in Finding the One.
  • A participant received feedback on his New Empowering Statement and searching on dating sites.
  • Another participant asked about how to express her desire to maintain physical boundaries until she is engaged.
  • A participant asked how to handle a date who is significantly more religious than she is as he can be a possibility.

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March 07, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari coached a participant who was thinking about her ex-boyfriend and comparing all other dates to him.
      • Another participant received coaching on how to have meaningful conversations to clarify if someone is a good match and how to determine if someone can meet your emotional needs early on. She ask received clarification on local dating versus consider long distance and how to discern great matches versus spending time with the wrong ones.

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February 29, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari coached a participant about opening herself fully and being fully vulnerable when dating.
      • Bari did a screen share and demonstrated best ways to search for matches on JDate answering the question-as to what she was not getting responses when emailing prospects.

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February 22, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant around his question that he worries that he “should” be more excited about the woman he’s dating and his fear and discomfort that his girlfriend is more excited about the relationship than he is.  Is his blind spot lurking?
  • Another participant received coaching around her reaction to a date saying that he just may not be the one based on his situation.  She she wait and see?  Is it rejection if he’s not ready?
  • Another participant received coaching around how to know which of the men she’s dating and will meet in person is the one? How will she know?

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February 8, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari coached a participant on how to handle a question/opinion from her family member about her dating plan and she shared her exciting dating plan of action to travel to meet potentials.
      • A participant received coaching on how to date without overwhelm, powerful and relaxed Dating Mindset related to managing her pipeline and asking meaningful questions on dates.
      • Another participant received coaching on sharing her vision versus sharing her emotional needs with people who want to make suggestions.
      • A participant received coaching about how to handle not meeting people she clicks with and what to do instead.

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February 1, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

          • Bari coached someone about how to get better matches on SawYouAtSinai.
          • Another participant received coaching on managing her picks on a swipe app
          • Bari coached a participant on getting complete with someone who had strong compatibility with.
          • Then 3 participants received feedback on their online dating profiles.

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January 25, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached 3 participants through fundamental and breakthrough Challenge Your Thinking exercises. 
  • One was for someone who had fear and concerns about her boyfriend’s background.  She came away from it feeling free and powerful.
  • Another CYT was around fear of moving ahead in dating.
  • Bari coached another participant had a question about gaining clarity about whether or not to date someone in another county and her concerns about his status. 

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January 19, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

              • Bari coached a participant on how to establish boundaries w/her family.
              • A participant dating long distance received coaching on getting re-energized & refilling her dating pipeline.
              • A participant received coaching how to not accept every date that is suggested and how to enjoy the process.
              • Bari did a mini Online Dating Profiles session spotlight with two participants.

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January 11, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                  • Two participants received coaching on how best to discuss values and goals with dates to determine if they’re real matches. Her question: “When it comes to determining common values, how flexible should I be with certain things. I met a guy that I really like and see a lot of potential with but religious observance (he is more religious) and location (he’s from NY) became an issue when I really want to live in LA.
                  • Another participant shared her dating pipeline and excitement about 3 matches in her pipeline and how a few are surprising and local.

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January 4, 2016 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                  • A participant shared her dating status and success in Dating Camp! Very inspiring.
                  • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise around boundaries with a family member. She also received coaching and feedback about a weekend singles retreat and how to handle someone who preferred to receive all of her attention (when she chose to get to know several new people).
                  • A participant received coaching on creating her marriage journal and how to imagine the answers to the questions in Module 2.3.
                  • Bari did a Challenge Your Thinking exercise with two participants needed support in seeing their own greatness and rising up against challenges.

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December 21, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

We just had a powerful Q&A session and it turned out to be around clearing space from the past and of course, getting back to self-love and conscious thinking! First I answered a question that Margo had about someone she’d spoken with on the phone–where something just didn’t resonate personality wise–I coached her that with a full pipeline, she’ll ultimately meet the right one. And the point is that going or not going out with this one person is not the bigger picture question. It’s more around NOT scrutinizing/analyzing each and every date (should I, shouldn’t I?) but rather filling your pipeline and really going with the flow. If someone triggers something within us, we can try and figure out what that is, or chalk it up a no, next. Then we did 2 amazing CYT exercises:

                  • First with Sarah around her old story lurking in the present and what she was telling herself when someone said “you must be too picky” and what she was making that mean. This applies to all of us.
                  • Then another gem with Jessica who had a question about a reaction she was having to a wonderful man she’s dating. And once again, the pesky old story was coming up–and affecting her present reality and we got to the root of it.

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December 14, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                  • Bari did a Dating Camp Orientation for the first 30 minutes of the session
                  • Bari provided feedback to a participant on her Dating Plan of Action and how to handle long distance dating.
                  • A participant received feedback on her JDate profile and her attitude on dating. ….and more

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December 7, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on her Dating Plan of action, profile photos and a plan for long distance dating that left her feeling excited and inspired.
  • Two participants received coaching and feedback on dating mindset.  One after a traumatic experience with a family member and another on mindset post breakup with the wrong one.
  • Another participant received coaching on whether or not go on a date with someone she’s not inspired by.

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November 30, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari gave a participant suggestions on how to introduce her guy to her family as she had concerns about his shyness with other introductions–and how to discuss this with him.
  • Another participant shared her pipeline and status of dating with a positive, joyful attitude.

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November 23, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on new ideas for searching and finding marriage minded dates by adjusting her search parameters and expanding her reach.
  • A participant received coaching on getting complete with a guy she started dating who turned out not to be the one and seeing it for what it really was so she could move on to find the right one.
  • Bari coached a participant on how to share her vision for her relationship–moving it to the the next level with the man she is dating.

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November 16, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                  • Bari coached a participant on staying powerful in the face of life’s challenges.
                  • A participant received coaching on keeping phone conversations short and breaking through her worry about being rude.
                  • Bari gave a participant feedback on her dating pipeline and some new ideas for finding dates.
                  • A participant received coaching on not giving away her power in the face of meeting someone she’s excited about through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise.

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November 9, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                  • Bari coached a participant in dealing with irrational fears in a powerful way when dating and discussed the person she’s dating now.
                  • A participant received coaching on her dating pipeline and answered a question about whether or not to continue dating a guy whose communication has been sporadic and who cancelled meeting in person.
                  • Bari coached a participant who had questions about whether or not to share specifics about her fertility on her dating profile.
                  • A participant received coaching on getting complete with a guy who didn’t share her vision and moving forward powerfully through the many new dating suggestions she’s receiving.

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October 26, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

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October 19, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                          • A participant received coaching about managing her pipeline and long distance dating
                          • Bari coached a participant about how much to give in a relationship and how to not compare the relationship with her mother with her current boyfriend.
                          • A participant received coaching on getting back to basics and dating with balance and not judging or eliminating singles events.
                          • Bari coached a participant on how to handle her current dating pipeline.

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October 7, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                          • A participant received coaching on trusting her gut regarding whether or not to go on a second date with someone.
                          • Another participant received coaching on whether she should date other people while dating someone who has most of the qualities she’s looking for, but not quite all.
                          • We had another great discussion and coaching around forgiving ourselves when we revert to old thinking–thinking we don’t deserve the good things that are happening–and on being really vulnerable with another.
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September 21, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                              • A participant received coaching about how to handle dates who take a long time to get in contact and on staying motivated and in the proper mindset when dating.
                              • Bari answered other dating questions about getting started, searching on dating sites and being proactive when dating.

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August 31, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                                  • A participant received coaching on making her online dating profile stellar–to reflect the real her.
                                  • Another participant received feedback and coaching on someone she’s dating about if her concerns are real or from the past.
                                  • A participant received coaching on her question about whether or not it feminine to send emails to men on dating sites. Be sure hear the empowering answer.
                                  • A participant shared her joy and surprise in date with someone she was not going to consider.

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August 24, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                                  • A participant received coaching on Dating Mindset and how to know if someone is the one.
                                  • Bari coached a participant on best ways to communicate on first dates and first phone call conversations to get to know “who a person is” versus what he/she likes.
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August 10, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                                      • Bari coached a participant on how to expand her online search criteria and her mindset opening up a wide new array of new people to speak with.
                                      • A participant received coaching on how to evaluate profiles and it’s right to “give nice people a chance.”

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August 3, 2015 Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                                        • Bari coached a participant who was struggling over a disappointing long distance dating experience, to see a totally different perspective so she could move on powerfully.
                                        • A participant received feedback on her brand new Dating Profile that was awesome. She shared that for the first time, how she felt when meeting a matchmaker and sharing her new Dating Profile, “I actually felt like I was being true to myself.  I never felt that way before now–it was a major breakthrough.”
                                        • Another participant received coaching on how to maintain a positive mindset and balance when dating to marry.
                                        • Bari gave a participant feedback on his online Profile and photos.

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July 29, 2015 Evening Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                                      • Our session began with a training on how to create your Dating Plan of Action practically and with the proper mindset.
                                      • Bari did some searching on Jdate with a participant. She shared tips and how-to’s to find even more matches (after feeling like she exhausted all possibilities) including how to expand her search to another area she would consider moving to.
                                      • A participant received feedback on her online Dating Profile and with Bari’s help they made her profile even better!
                                      • Bari coached a participant who was looking for clarity on what and how to look for her perfect match.  She was feeling conflicted about the proper age range and education level to look for and what to say when asked “What are you looking for?” without feeling judged or picky.

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July 27, 2015 Afternoon Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                                      • Bari coached a participant on getting out of a self-sabotaging mindset that was keeping her from going on actual dates.
                                      • A participant received coaching on creating her online dating profile — taking from a “shidduch” matchmaker profile that didn’t express her uniqueness to the distinctions of a great one to attract the right people.
                                      • Bari coached a participant on getting complete with a guy with liked but wasn’t marriage minded and she received tips on how to effectively expand her search on dating sites

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July 6, 2015 Evening Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                                          • Bari coached a participant on remaining open and vulnerable when dating instead of being guarded and closed from the past using the Challenge Your Thinking exercise.
                                          • A participant received coaching on how to maintain a powerful mindset when searching for marriage minded men to date.
                                          • Bari coached a participant on creating a powerful online profile that reflects who she is.

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June 22, 2015 Afternoon Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                                                • The first Spotlight was around how to powerfully evaluate a new long distance relationship to see if the person truly has the space for love.
                                                • Another participant received coaching on having Enrollment Conversations with new matchmakers and others so only amazing matches would be sent.
                                                • Bari coached another participant who had question about someone new she is dating who has some wonderful qualities and to understand if her concerns are real or old stuff from the past.

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June 15th, 2015 Evening Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                                • Bari coached a participant who asked about when and how to address dating someone exclusively and how to manage dating two people at the same time.
                                                • A participant received coaching about how to gain clarity about his beloved’s time line to get married and ascertain if they are on the same page.
                                                • Bari coached another participant on creating a dream team to help him to have a full pipeline.

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June 8th, 2015 Afternoon Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                                • Bari coached a participant on the creation of her online dating profile.
                                                • A participant received coaching on creating her Dating Plan of Action and creating the structure to keep her in the proper mindset for achieving her goal.

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June 2nd, 2015 Evening Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

An amazing session!

                                                • Bari coached two participants in the creation of their amazing online dating profiles.
                                                • Another participant received coaching on how to search effectively and how to maintain a full pipeline of dates.
                                                • Bari coached a participant on how to have meaningful conversations with the person she’s dating to understand his vision. and more…

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May 18th, 2015 Evening Dating Camp Q&A Session

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May 18th, 2015 Afternoon Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                                •  Did a Spotlight session with a participant who requested coaching on doing enrollment conversations, but instead we discussed the importance of creating her dating plan of action first and how enrollment conversations are part of a holistic plan for success.
                                                • Another participant received coaching on managing her dating pipeline, meeting someone she’s been speaking to and excited about willing to relocate.  She also received coaching on how to cancel a date she wasn’t interested in pursuing–a victory over people pleasing.
                                                • Another participant shared how empowered she feels with the support of Dating Camp and she received coaching on how to create structure around her dating.

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May 4th, 2015 Evening Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                                • Bari coached a participant on her dating pipeline and how to be in the driver’s seat of her dating.
                                                • A participant received coaching on how to stay super position and empowered when dating and how “being the one” is key.
                                                • Bari answered the question about why flirting and and forcing things is not part of healthy dating and why it’s important to screen all potential dates regardless of who referred them (and how).
                                                • A participant received coaching on his managing his own healthy thinking while dating the person he wants to marry.

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April 20th, 2015 Evening Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                                • Bari coached a participant on how to improve and expand her search locations on a dating site. She received fine tuning on her profile and specific ways to improve her results.
                                                • A participant received mindset techniques to stay really super positive about dating.
                                                • Bari coached a participant

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March 30th, 2015 Evening Dating Camp Q&A Session

Tune into a special session where Bari answered questions for those in relationships and special topics relationship to finding the one.

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March 16th, 2015 Lunch & Learn Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                                • A participant received coaching on how to maintain a full pipeline of dates and how to adjust searching on jdate so as not to “see only the same people.”
                                                • Bari coached a participant on dating etiquette and whether or not she should continue dating someone.
                                                • A participant received coaching on how to handle inflexible dates.
                                                • Bari coached a participant on the importance of having fun and joyful when dating and the importance of not feeling guilty.

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March 9th, 2015 Evening Dating Camp Q&A Session

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March 2nd, 2015 Lunch & Learn Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                                • Bari answered questions and provided coaching about how many phone calls should there be before going on a coffee date and how long phone calls should last.
                                                • A participant asked how to handle “taking the reins” and stating her preference without being masculine or pushy.
                                                • Bari answered a question from a participant in a relationship about how to handle a situation where he feels love expressed in action, but not in words.
                                                • Bari coached a participant who expressed feeling overwhelmed when her pipeline is full and like that she needs to take a break when it’s empty.

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February 23, 2015 Evening Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on how to approach making phone calls to people she’s interested in–how to bust through fear and having the proper mindset.
  • A participant received coaching on how to approach men who say they are “looking for a relationship”.
  • Bari did a Challenge Your Thinking exercise with a participant who needed clarity.
  • Bari coached a participant on how getting back to basics when feeling overwhelmed “with so much going on.”
  • A participant received coaching on how to manage a situation related to family with someone he is dating

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February 9, 2015 Evening Dating Camp Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari did a Spotlight coaching session with a participant on how to create her online dating profile.
  • In another Spotlight session, Bari shared tips and techniques with a few participants on how to search on Jdate and also Match.com so they don’t see the same people over and over again.
  • Bari coached a participant on being open and relaxed when meeting new people in way that is inquisitive rather than pushy or like an interview.

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February 2, 2015 Dating Camp Lunch & Learn Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari acknowledged a participant for having totally new energy and clarity–a victory over how she was when she first started FTO.
  • A participant new to Dating Camp shared how already her dating is different and how excited she is to create her online profile and to date in the new way.
  • A participant shared her pipeline and a breakthrough in having a totally new attitude.
  • A participant received coaching on dating long distance and handling first phone calls.

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January 25, 2015 Evening Dating Camp  Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on being the one to find the one when dating and how to show up powerfully for each date.
  • A participant shared how wonderful it feels to be dating someone who may be the one.
  • A participant shared about his pipeline and how he was able to get complete with someone who wasn’t the one.
  • Bari coached a participant about how to enjoy online dating and how to maintain a full pipeline.

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January 12, 2015 – Dating Camp Evening Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on not taking well-meaning, but bad advice from people who suggest that she settle or is being too picky when she knows in her gut the match is not for her.
  • A participant shared her concern that there aren’t matches where she lives and Bari coached her about new perspectives on being open and creating possibilities.
  • Bari coached a participant who was trying to see the good even in matches that are clearly wrong for her.
  • A participant shared her experience with dating someone who may very well be the one–and how he is continuing to show up for her as a great match.
  • A participant shared her full pipeline and experience really being out there with a great attitude and how powerful she feels–a real victory over the past.
  • Another participant shared her experience re-filling her pipeline after someone she thought was the one–turned out to not meet her emotional needs.
  • Bari coached another participant to “not text” someone who she wants to meet and to allow him to contact her when he is available–a victory over being needy–and thus allowing things to unfold.

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January 5, 2015 – Dating Camp Lunch & Learn Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on how dating truly is a numbers game and the importance of ending dates with clarity.
  • A participant shared about someone who could possibly be “the one” and how after being coached about a few concerns she had, she spoke with him and he leaned in and responded positively about meeting her emotional needs.
  • Bari coached a participant about what to say when a date asks her how many people she’s currently dating.
  • A participant shared about how great it feels to have a full pipeline after closing out two people she met for coffee on an out of town trip.

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December 22, 2014 – Dating Camp Lunch & Learn Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on how to get back to basics regarding a situation with her son causing her life to be unmanageable.
  • A participant asked how to handle a singles event where the venue is dark and people are drinking–should she go up to people and challenge herself to be “flirty.”
  • Bari answered a question about whether or not to reply to people on a dating site when their upper limit age requirement is younger her.]
  • A new participant in Dating Camp received coaching about the mindset to have when getting started in the program.
  • A participant shared his excitement about having met the one and what happened when he proposed to her after 6 weeks.
  • Bari coached participants who are meeting people who live in other States on how to handle their pipelines in the meantime. 
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December 15, 2014 – Dating Camp Evening Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Participants shared their dating pipelines.
  • Bari coached a client about dating long distance and what to do if a potential date isn’t going to be in the US until Springtime.
  • A participant shared her dating pipeline and how happy she is to have so many exciting dates to look forward to.

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December 1, 2014 – Dating Camp Evening Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • A participant asked how to handle phone dates that just don’t flow or “click” and if she should go on a coffee date anyway.  She also asked how to handle dating apps like Tinder.
  • Bari coached a participant who may have found the one on how to date exclusively, whether or not to schedule time with others during his 4 day visit over the holidays or to focus on alone time to get to know each other better and how she feels excited and calm at the same time.
  • A participant shared her concerns about the 3 people in her pipeline and Bari coached her on letting them go and getting back to the basics of self love and “being the one.”
  • Bari coached a participant on how to get her profile ready and another participant on how to search on dating sites.

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November 24, 2014 – Dating Camp Lunch & Learn Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on how to handle a date coming in from out of town–discuss what to look for and if certain elements are concerns or not.
  • With a participant, Bari redid a dating profile and took it from being too long and detailed to clear and amazing!
  • Bari coached a participant on how to be in charge of her pipeline–that dating is a numbers game and the importance of saying “I prefer”….and to stay committed to hre vision.
  • A participant got new ideas on how to meet new people including speed dating and new events and the importance of being open.
  • Bari coached a participant on staying steady when dating and generating the joy of the process instead of coming from the past.

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November 17, 2014 – Dating Camp Evening Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • A participant shared how great it feels dating in the way, being clear about her intentions and no more mixed signals.
  • Bari coached a client on how to keep her pipeline filled with new and exciting marriage-minded dates and if a phone call with a potential date doesn’t resonate, not to meet in person.
  • A participant shared how her dating experience and the people she’s attracting and the situations she’s encountering are totally different and positive since her transformation.
  • Another client shared how positive she feels now and is clear on the type of person she wants to marry and how to attract him.
  • A client shared how she is dating someone who is wonderful for her and how she notices how uncomfortable it feels being with someone who could be the one — her commitment to leaning in.

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November 10, 2014 – Dating Camp Lunch & Learn Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Everyone shared updates on their dating pipelines and how great it is to date in the new, empowered way
  • A participant asked if sharing her marriage-mindedness too soon would scare people off.
  • Bari coached someone about keeping her pipeline full and going with the flow
  • A participant shared his excitement about someone new that he is dating and Bari coached him about getting out of his own way.  
  • Bari coached a participant about how to communicate with someone who just won’t take no for an answer — how to be clear and firm in delivering her communication.
  • A participant asked Bari if she should go on a date with someone who doesn’t share her vision of having children and the difference between people who are “open to it” versus no’s.
  • Bari coached someone on how to stay the course when she hasn’t been excited about people she’s met lately.  She asked if there is something wrong that she hasn’t felt a connection.

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November 3, 2014 – Dating Camp Evening Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

A participant shared how empowered she feels since joining a new dating site and people are writing her back–and how empowered she feels since getting new photos. Bari coached a participant on what to do when you feel like you’re going through all of the same people on a dating site. A participant shared pipeline and another shared how he’s feeling super empowered since growing his pipeline. Another participant shared how great it is to dating someone who is meeting her needs. Bari answered a question about “how long will it take to know” if someone is right for her. Another participant shared how alien and scary it feels to be dating someone who is meeting her needs for the first time. A participant shared how powerful she feels by being direct when dating. [jwplayer player=”4″ mediaid=”3051″]

October 27, 2014 – Dating Camp Lunch & Learn Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on how to search for someone online who shares her religious values.
  • A participant asked how to end a date with clarity — how she felt uncomfortable doing so and Bari coached her on how to do it powerfully as a gift to the other person.
  • Bari coached participants on how to be focused on feeling empowered when searching for people to date and to not focus on the random people who contact.  She used the analogy – you can’t take someone seriously who whistles at you in the street.
  • A participant shared her concern about a date who lied about his age online, but told her his real age within five minutes of meeting–and allayed her concerns.
  • Bari coached someone on how to gain clarity and to feel super-empowered about how to handle a co-worker who asked her out — is he looking for love or friendship?  

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October 20, 2014 – Dating Camp Evening Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • A participant shared how empowered she feels since having gotten complete with someone and how much space she has for dating — and how excited she is.
  • Another participant shared how excited she is to have a full pipeline and she’s getting ready to meet someone who lives far away and is coming to see her!  She’s opened up her possibilities.
  • Another participant shared how much more alive she feels since going back to self-love basics and how great guys are contacting her since her shift–and from joining Match.com (a new site for her).  She shared her joy that there are so many amazing marriage minded men out there (and how she’s attracting them now)
  • Another participant will be meeting someone from the past who’s been divorced for 4 years (who knows) — and she’s filling up her pipeline and end other dates with clarity.
  • Bari coached a participant to never search, send emails or make phone calls when in a bad space.  Instead do a Challenge Your Thinking exercise, the mirror exercise and a lot of self-love.  Then possibility and rational thinking returns.

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October 13, 2014 – Dating Camp Lunch & Learn Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on how to have peace of mind regarding someone who keeps showing up in her life — how to move forward powerfully.
  • A participant asked how to handle feeling guilty about not wanting to date someone who looks good on paper.
  • Bari coached a participant on how to access being “fully alive” by creating a quest for herself to attract the kind of person she’d like to marry.
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October 6, 2014 – Dating Camp Evening Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Everyone shared updates on their dating pipelines and how great it is to date in the new, empowered way
  • A participant shared the sweetness of having met a guy who could be “the one” and how it feels like her Empowering Statement has come to life.
  • Bari coached a participant on staying super positive and in the drivers seat of her dating and how to not focus on the “wrong” ones.
  • All learned about staying connected when dating but not attached to results until there is mutual caring and commitment.
  • Bari coached a participant to keep her pipeline full while she’s dating someone who has potential but she’s not sure if he’s the one.

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September 29, 2014 – Dating Camp Lunch & Learn Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Everyone shared updates on their dating pipelines and how great it is to date in the new, empowered way
  • A participant shared her sadness over realizing that someone she’d traveled to meet wasn’t the one and how she got back to feeling super empowered.   Tune in to hear Bari do a quick Challenge Your Thinking with her….
  • A participant asked Bari how to handle a date who can’t stop talking about his ex and how to end the date with clarity (when someone isn’t ready).
  • Bari coached a participant on how to initiate conversations to ascertain if someone is single when encountering people at various events.
  • A participant asked how to handle her fear of asking someone if he’s marriage-minded too soon for fear of scaring him off.
  • Bari coached a participant creating a much larger “pipeline” of dates so that he can feel excited and uplifted on his journey.

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September 22, 2014 – Dating Camp Evening Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Everyone shared updates on their dating pipelines and how great it is to date in the new, empowered way
  • A participant shared how she decided to go from finding her one locally to opening her search up widely and being excited about the possibility of relocating.
  • Bari coached a participant on how to handle a date where she’s not sure if he wants children and his timeframe.
  • A participant asked how to handle inviting a man out to a coffee date after thinking it’s the man’s role.
  • Someone asked if he should give a person a try if he’s not attracted to her picture.  Should he feel bad turning down a matchmaker’s suggestion?

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September 15, 2014 – Dating Camp Lunch & Learn Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant who is “not excited about online dating” about how her attitude from the past is sabotaging her efforts.  Dating sites present amazing opportunties for finding the one–but you need to be the one in order to see it.
  • A participant shared about his dating pipeline and Bari coached him on how to be open to possibilities he hadn’t considered.
  • A participant who just started dating shared her big breakthroughs and aha moments in dating by seeing herself as she really is and how great it feels.
  • Bari did a demonstration on how to search online dating sites to create a full pipeline.

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September 8, 2014 – Dating Camp Evening Session

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