Marriage Readiness Quiz – Meet To Marry

Are you truly ready to find your perfect match and get married? Take this quiz to find out how prepared you are and start to uncover and dissolve your blockages!

Answer the questions truthfully. Don’t answer with what you think is the right answer! It’s really important to get clear about where you really stand at this moment in time.

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Do you believe you will meet your ideal spouse?

A. Yes I am sure I will meet my ideal marriage partner because I am open warm and trusting of myself and my judgment. I have faith that timing is a critical element in life so I put myself in favorable situations.

B. I believe I will but it will take time patience and a lot of hard work.
C. I think any two people can be right for each other if they’re both willing to work at it.
D. I guess it’s possible but I’ve had a lot of bad experiences.

Are you clear about relationship

A. Yes I’m clear. I have clear vision of the future I’d like to create how I’d like to feel in a relationship and the kind of person I’d like to marry. I know myself well including my values and emotional needs.
B. I have a pretty good idea but could use some more clarity about how to know if someone is right for me and if I’m truly marriage ready.
C. I know exactly what I want. I’m looking for someone of a certain age with certain interests and I will not deviate from that mold. Why should I?
D. I don’t really know what I am looking for so I give everyone a chance but no one is ever right.

Is dating a priority

A. Yes since getting married is one of my life goals dating is a top priority for me. I allot time every week in my calendar even though I am very busy. I do this as I would with any activity that is a priority in my life.
B. I am very busy so I squeeze in dating and dating activities when I can which causes my dating to become sporadic and inconsistent.
C. I am not comfortable with “scheduling” dating time and dating-related activities. I believe that it will just happen organically.
D. I can’t remember the last time I went on a date.

Do you spend time with former spouse etc who didnt work out

A. I am committed to finding my future spouse and the father or mother of my children so friendship at this time is not an option.
B. I spend time with friends of the same gender but sometimes if a date doesn’t work out that person may become a friend.
C. I have a lot of friends who I formerly dated and I even give them advice about dating. I think it’s fine. You never know if things will turn around.
D. Former girlfriends/boyfriends are fun to spend time with and they keep me busy while I’m looking for “the one.”

Do you have closure

A. Yes all my relationships from the past are closed books. We have gone our separate ways.
B. There is one former love who I still think about occasionally when I feel lonely but there is nothing there.
C. I can’t seem to let go of a past love so I keep the door open just in case.
D. I don’t want to close the door with an ex because you never know what could happen.

Do you feel good about yourself

A. Yes I do. I take care of myself and do my best to feel healthy be happy and to present myself in the best light possible. I know that if I feel good about myself I will radiate positivity and attract good things in my life.
B. I feel pretty good about my appearance but I could definitely do some more in terms of presentation. If I did I’m sure I would feel more self-confident.
C. I feel insecure in several areas and I’m sure it keeps my energy low. I could use some advice but I don’t know where to begin.
D. I’m happy the way I am and I don’t have time to pay attention to such things. Someone will just have to like me as I am.

How would you classify your life

A. I have a full and happy life in all areas with a great support system of friends family and interests.
B. My life is complete in most areas but I do feel a little frustrated about this “I’m still single and everyone else is married” thing.
C. I feel somewhat lonely and depressed. I wonder what’s wrong with me and if I’ll ever find the one and get married.
D. I hate being single. I really question my lovability. I need to meet someone.

I believe I can meet my ideal marriage partner

A. I am open to meeting someone in a variety of ways. I am open-minded and don’t judge different venues based on past experiences.
B. I’m open to different possibilities but I have had some bad experiences at various events so I won’t go to them anymore.
C. I only date by introduction and don’t trust the internet. I’ve only met losers on the internet and I don’t talk to strangers. I don’t want to expose myself.
D. I believe my ideal mate will find me somehow so I don’t have to put myself out there.

I am serious about finding the one

A. After first speaking on the phone to establish whether or not we have similar visions common values and/or life goals I agree to meet for coffee for a first date. I give my date my full attention even if he/she is not a match.
B. I meet dates for dinner and am a pretty active listener but if after a while I feel he/she isn’t the one I drift off or just talk about myself.
C. I don’t have a format for dating so it could be dinner or a movie and at the end of the date I keep things vague so I can think about the situation later.
D. If I’m not interested in my date or it drags out too long I look around the room to see who else interesting might be there. This way it isn’t a waste of time.

I want to get married now

A. I’ll be a great spouse! I know myself very well understand what I am looking for in a marriage partner and can clearly envision the kind of life I want to create.
B. The time has come where I feel I want to share my life with someone and experience what it would be like to take care of someone else and to be taken care of.
C. I think I am ready and want to take the leap into new waters.
D. I hate being single. I really question my lovability. I need to meet someone. I don’t want to be alone anymore and I just hope it’s not too late for me.

Are you truly ready to find your perfect match and get married? Take this quiz to find out how prepared you are and start to uncover and dissolve your blockages!

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