Recordings – FTO

February 7th, 2018 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Tune in to this powerful Bye Bye Blind spots session where Bari walked a participant to discover her blind spot and and then the steps to take to heal it.

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January 23rd, 2018 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Bari coached a participant on how to be fully and completely free from ex who definitely wasn’t the one without suffering and being powerfully related to reality.
  • Another participant created her New Empowering Statement in a way that felt exciting and authentic.
  • Bari led a Challenge Your Thinking Exercise with a participant about her concern that she won’t have the support she needs from her family the way she wishes she could.

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January 9th, 2018 Finding the One Q&A Session

Tune into this first Spotlight Coaching Session for Finding The One, Clear Your Mind

  • Bari led a session on Getting To The A’s Question #1 about the shift that happens when you believe that your dream of true love is is possible (regardless of what’s happened in the past) and Question #5 on HOW to get truly complete from people from your past. 

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November 7, 2017 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Tune into this powerful session where a participant is led through healing her wounded inner child! She had big aha’s!

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October 24, 2017 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Tune in to this amazing Q&A session last night where Bari led a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise. Sometimes we gather evidence to validate our story–that’s there’s something wrong with us. It’s so comfortable! It’s so familiar, right? But at the end of the day, a healthy mind transcends the story. . .why? The story isn’t true. It never was. Check out this recording to experience going from stuck to choosing love for yourself. . .and freedom to accept life on life’s terms.

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October 3, 2017 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Bari coached a participant on creating her New Empowering Statement and she went from feeling confused to super clear, really loving it.
  • Another participant also created and modified her New Empowering Statement based on the coaching and went over a Challenge Your Thinking overview in preparation for Module 5.

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September 19, 2017 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Bari coached a participant discovering her blind spot “I’m not and healing in this mini-bye bye blindspots session.
  • Another participant received coaching around how to deal with “old beliefs” by doing a Challenge Your Thinking exercise and received feedback on how date himself while visioning his beloved.

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September 6, 2017 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Bari coached a participant post Bye Bye Blindspots to zoom in on her blind spot, new empowering statement and really transcending old ways of being.
  • Another participant received some direct, and focused feedback to help him release his deep seated, negative, sabotaging thinking using the Challenge Your Thinking process.

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August 15, 2017 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Bari coached a participant through her post Bye Bye Blindspots session about her break through and discovery of her blind spot and the new freedom she’s experiencing! She discovered who she really and that there’s truly nothing wrong with her!

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July 25, 2017 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • In this special Bye Bye Blind spots session, Bari went over a participant’s Reality Check where he discovered his blind spot and learned the steps to take to heal it!

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July 18, 2017 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Bari coached a participant about getting back to basics and about powerful ways of dating himself.
  • Bari answered the question: How will I stop attracting “wrong” abusive men.
  • Another participant received feedback post “Bye Bye Blind spots” about healing her inner child and moving on powerfully.

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June 26, 2017 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Bari coached a participant through a Challenging Your Thinking exercise to expedite breaking free from negative thought patterns to healthy and empowering ones.
  • Another participant received coaching on how to completely and totally be free and complete of thoughts of an ex girlfriend and the mechanism for making it real.

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May 15, 2017 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • In this intimate session, Bari coached a participant through Question #1 of the Marriage Readiness Quiz–Getting To The A’s “Do you believe you’ll meet your ideal spouse—and why to believing is key”

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May 2, 2017 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Join this powerful session where Bari coached a participant who wanted feedback on how to disconnect from a male friend (and the anxiety it was causing her). Tune in to hear her powerful breakthrough.

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April 19, 2017 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Bari coached a participant on the importance of having friends of the same gender when dating to marry.
  • Another participant received coaching on Getting To A’s and Question #1 around believing that what he wants is possible and Question #5 around getting complete.
  • Tune into this powerful session!

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February 15, 2017 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Bari did a Bye Bye Blindspots Reality Check session with a participant who discovered his blindspot Disempowering Story!

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December 20, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Bari gave feedback to two participants who shared their New Empowering Statements and coached them through Challenge Your Thinking exercises to get to super healthy thinking separate from their stories.

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November 30, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this Q&A session:

  • Bari coached a participant through a powerful Challenge Your Thinking exercise that freed him from upset about how poorly his father treats him as an adult. He walked away feeling empowered!
  • A participant shared a breakthrough in how using Challenging Your Thinking gave her peace of mind after waking up from a bad dream.

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November 15, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

In this very special Q&A session:

  • Bari coached several participants through some transformational Challenge Your Thinking exercises In one, a participant had a big aha! about why NOT to spend time a male friend she thought needed her
  • In another, a participant had an aha in seeing why he pursues women who offer up only crumbs.

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November 1, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • In this Q&A session, Bari facilitated a Challenge Your Thinking exercise with a particpant whose complaint was her frustration over choosong men with whom she always had to make the plans and be in charge of making things happen.
  • and more…

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October 19, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari did a Challenge Your Thinking exercise with a participant around her fear of being abandoned.
  • Another participant created his New Empowering Statement.
  • and more…

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October 13, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • In this session, Bari answered questions and coached two participants about getting back in the program powerfully.
  • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise around “I won’t be able to sustain a powerful relationship” and staying in structure for success.

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Sept 27, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari answered questions and coached a participant on her question: “How Do I Handle Being with Family and Their Negativity now that I’ve broken through and feeling positive and empowered. It’s almost like they can’t handle it and I do love my family. . .” Check out this powerful Challenge Your Thinking exercise and discussion.

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Sept 20, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • In this general Q&A session, Bari answered the question “How do you keep your mindset healthy after you uncover your blindspot? How do you keep it alive?” by doing a Challenge Your Thinking with a participant. It’s all about building the muscle of healthy thinking using Meet to Marry tools. . ..
  • Bari coached a participant in Getting To The A’s question #2 Are You Clear About The Kind of Person You Want to Marry? because he shared that he keeps meeting the same wrong women who don’t want to have children.
  • A participant shared that the Meet to Marry Method mindset helped her to find her dream job!

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Sept 13, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari answered various questions in this general Q&A session with several new members.

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August 30, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on identifying his dis empowering statement. He wasn’t sure if it’s “I’m damaged” or that “I’m not good enough/something’s wrong with me.”
  • A participant received coaching and feedback on his completion letter to his ex – he said “I don’t ever think about getting together with her – but it was really helpful writing 20+ pages” He asked “please clarify for me the before and after of a completion letter i.e. what is it supposed to accomplish?”
  • Another participant received coaching on getting complete with her ex now.

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August 16, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant who have feeling challenged on getting was feeling stuck on her Old Story (blindpost) to feeling free and empowered.
  • Another participant received feedback on getting complete from past relationships.
  • Bari gave feedback to a participant on her New Empowering Statement that is drawing the future to her.

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August 9, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached two participant on creating their NES (New Empowering Statements) that will draw the future to them. It’s based on who they really are.
  • A participant received feedback and clarify their Old Disempowering Story (to uncover their hidden blind spot)
  • Bari coached a participant through Question 1 of Marriage Readiness Quiz around believing what he wants is possible.

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July 26, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant through Getting To The A’s on the topic of having clarity.
  • Another participant received coaching and feedback on her New Empowering Statement.
  • Bari coached a participant on her blind spot and really being able to tap into her vision.

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July 19, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • A participant received coaching on how to overcome her blind spots, being more open and not being afraid of rejection.
  • Bari coached several participants on writing completion letters, setting a goal and moving forward powerfully to create space.
  • A participant received feedback on Dating Herself and more!

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July 12, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on the Dating Yourself worksheet, spending time with friends of the same sex and Getting Complete as she’s having difficulty cutting ties with someone she still has feelings for even after writing 3 completion letters.   She received coaching on a new perspective or way of handling the situation as this person is still popping up in her life due to a work opportunity.
  • A participant received coaching on on having a full happy life now and not just waiting for a man to make me happy for someone who recently moved to another country.
  • Bari provided support and coaching around clearing out the space for marriage and support around the space she’s made to do this work. 🙂
  • Bari answered the question:  Is it okay to have gay male friends?

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July 5, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on Getting Complete with an ex. — specifically how release herself from feeling sorry for him to genuinely tell him to stop contacting her and mean it.
  • Another participant received coaching on why to not maintain friendships with ex-boyfriends while dating to marry.
  • Bari coached a participant on how to let go of negative and self sabotaging thinking and how to clear her anger surrounding the abandonment and resentment issues around her father’s physical and emotional abandonment.

 

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June 28, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant who was feeling uncertainly after 3 dates on how to not feel pressured and be true to herself.
  • Another participant received coaching support help her formulating her inspired marriage vision where she was feeling stuck.
  • Bari coached another participant who had a question about how to stay focused on her commitments and not sabotage her efforts.

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June 21, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise where she was still holding on to a past relationship that she felt was sabotaging her efforts in moving forward. She came away feeling free.
  • Another participant gain clarity on her Blind spot and then on Empowering Statement to create her whole new future.
  • Bari coached a participant on Believing that what he wants is possible in a rational and reality-based way.

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June 14, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant through a painful encounter using Challenge Your Thinking after which she felt empowered and really in reality about her value. 
  • A participant received coaching and feedback on getting complete from the long list of ex’s

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June 7, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

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May 24, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • A new participant received coaching and feedback on Getting Complete from her spouse who passed away and she got to see her value and the powerful of releasing herself from the past.
  • Another participant received feedback as she revisits Finding the One to rediscover her blindspot and New Empowering Statement.

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May 3, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant through getting complete with an ex who has been in her life for 12 years.
  • Another participant shared her New Empowering Story to create her future.

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May 10, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

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May 3, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • A participant shared her transformation and received coaching and feedback on her New Empowering Statement.
  • Bari coached a participant on identifying her blindspot and challenging fear.
  • A participant shared how wonderful it feel to get complete and date herself!

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April 19, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari coached two participants through their Reality Checks to discover their blind spots and heal them.
      • Another participant shared her Vision Board

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April 12, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

In this general Q&A session, Bari coached two participants through Believing and Getting Complete in Getting To The A’s.

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April 5, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari coached a participant on Getting Complete and having a victory over feeling guilty over a past relationship.
      • Another participant received coaching and had a powerful discussion on seeing how his blindspot is impacting his future (and taking up space)
      • A participant celebrated her progress and victories and then was coached through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise around boundaries and not being stopped by anyone.

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March 29, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari did a Challenge Your Thinking exercise with a participant who expressed fear about getting back into dating after time away dating herself.  (And enjoying feeling peaceful and balanced for the first time).
      • A participant shared that she met her one two weeks after starting the program!
      • Another participant shared her new found boundaries and her inspired dating from having written completion letters.  Pre-FTO her complaint was that dates only shared about themselves.  Now, she’s finding the conversations are balanced and equal.

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March 22, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • We had a great intimate session!
      • A participant receiving coaching on Getting to A’s around believing her vision is positive and attaining true closure that will allow her to have the inner space for her beloved.
      • Another participant received coaching on her New Empowering Statement — a blueprint for creating her new future.

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March 15, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

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March 08, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

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March 01, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

Tune into this general Q&A session check in call.  This particular session did not have specific spotlights.

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February 23, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari coached a participant on her New Empowering Statement.
      • A participant received feedback on her Old Story and how to heal it once and for all.
      • Another participant received coaching and shared her experience in getting complete and moving forward in her life though the program with courage.

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February 9, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari went through getting to A’s s with a participant who has many friend of the same gender.
      • Bari facilitated a Reality Check workshop.
      • Bari coached 3 participants through Spotlight sessions.

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February 2, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

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January 26, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant through believing her dream is possible and also on Getting Complete so she can move forward powerfully to her dream of healthy love.
  • Another participant receiving coaching on Challenging Her Thinking to get free of depression and dependence on unhealthy relationships.

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January 19, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

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January 12, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari coached participants through general questions related for the new folks in Finding the One.

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January 5, 2016 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

What a powerful session!

      • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking Exercise to a big breakthrough related to a fear of moving into Dating Camp.
      • Another participant received coaching on a situation that also lead to a powerful Challenge Your Thinking exercise around boundaries and letting go.
      • Bari coached a participant in Getting To the A’s around believing. She said “I feel the shift within me just from listening. It’s been really helpful!”

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December 22, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

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December 15, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise where she needed to be true to herself.
  • Another participant  shared a big breakthrough in marriage readiness and how she is opening up to being vulnerable in a really powerful way.
  • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise around someone being critical of her.

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December 08, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on the topic of dating herself in a powerful way as a victory over the past.
  • Another participant receiving coaching around closing the door to all ex’s to pave inner space for the real love she desires.
  • Bari coached a participant on identifying her unique emotional needs and personality traits that will be the basis of her New Empowering Statement and Dating Profile.
  • A participant shared “I know my heart is waking up. . .my reality is changing. . . someone at church started to talking to me and that never happens.” She also shared that the mirror exercise gets easier each week and that the program has been a very spiritual experience.

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December 01, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari coached a participant on moving forward powerfully from her predisposition to men who do not respond to her in a healthy and natural way using Challenge Your Thinking and reality based thinking as tools.
      • Another participant received feedback and coaching on identifying her true emotional needs, personality traits and values and she received feedback on how to date herself in a way that would be healing and victory over the past.

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November 24, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari coached a participant on how to articulate her most important personality traits and how they fit into to self love and the bigger picture.A participant received coaching and shared the power and joy of leaving her comfort zone regarding unhealthy friendships and old boyfriends.
      • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise to help her get back to self love and reality based thinking.
      • Another participant received coaching and feedback on her New Empowering Statement that will draw the future to her now. She went from feeling depressed to empowering. She it makes me feel like “I can do it!”
      • Another participant shared about and received coaching about getting complete and moving away from a relationship that supported her “old story” that she’s a loser to knowing that she can create a new, healthy relationship with the right person.
      • A participant shared that the work of Finding the One has allowed her to incorporate all of the work she’s done in the past and now everything makes sense and is flowing so easily!

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November 17, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari coached a participant in getting back to a really healthy place and by connecting to her new empowering statement.
      • Bari gave feedback to another participant about new empowering statement..
      • A participant received coaching on a Challenge Your Thinking exercise.
      • Bari coached a participant on dating herself as a victory over her past and the surprising thing she discovered about her ex.
      • A participant received coaching about a toxic relationship she was suffering over and how to move past it.

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November 10, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • 3 participants received coaching on their Realty Checks and discovered their blind spots (and how to heal themselves).
      • Another participant received coaching on getting complete.
      • Doing a Challenge Your Thinking exercise revealed to a participant a healthy and reality based way of seeing a situation about people she has dated that was troubling her.

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October 26, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant through Getting to the A’s on getting complete and truly believing love is possible.
  • A participant received coaching on feeling empowered after closing the door to several unhealthy relationships.
  • Bari did a Challenge Your Thinking exercise with a participant on a situation that was causing her to feel disempowered.
  • Two participants received coaching on finding the Old Disempowering Story as they worked through their Reality Check!

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October 20, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari guided a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise
  • A participant recapped her Old Story and created her New Empowering Statement based on reality
  • Bari did a Getting To The A’s exercise and coached someone to choosing completion.

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October 7, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari coached a participant through her Reality Check and she became clear about her blind spot and how to move forward powerfully and in reality.
      • Another participant received coaching on Getting to the As.

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September 21, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari coached a participant through Getting to the As with a focus on completion from the past and believing that healthy love is possible.<

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September 8, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

      • Bari coached a participant through two Challenge Your Thinking exercises.

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September 1, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

          • A participant received coaching on Getting To The A’s, getting complete and believing that her dreams are possible.
          • Another participant received coaching on connecting to her feminine side.  She shared a major victory in her life as a result of her breakthrough.
          • A participant received coaching on creating her New Empowering Statement and moving past her blind spot.

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August 25, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

          • Bari coached a participant through a powerful Challenge Your Thinking exercise
          • Another participant discovered her Old Disempowering Story — her Blind Spot by going over her Reality Check.

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August 11, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

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August 4, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

              • Bari coached a participant through a powerful Challenge Your Thinking exercise regarding a situation that had her upset and suffering.

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July 28, 2015 Finding the One Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

              • Bari coached a participant on truly believing that love is possible for him.
              • A participant received coaching and support in making a big life choice where she was stuck. She walked away with clarity and the knowing she is being true to herself.
              • Bari coached a participant on getting complete and how to date herself in a way that would cause a breakthrough and a victory over her past.

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July 21, 2015 Afternoon FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

              • A participant receiving coaching on Getting To The A’s questions related to Believing, No Spending Time with Friends of the Same Gender and Getting Complete.
              • Bari coached a participant through a powerful Challenge Your Thinking exercise.
              • Bari answered a question about why, in the Meet to Marry paradigm, marriage is not “hard work”

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July 14, 2015 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                  • Bari coached a participant on how to create her Marriage Vision with a blank slate without getting stuck on the past.
                  • A participant received coaching on Getting to the A’s and tackling fear of the idea of “getting married”

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July 7, 2015 Afternoon FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                      • Bari coached a participant on her New Empowering Statement and dating herself with a great discussion about attachment styles and really “being the one to find the one.”
                      • Another participant received coaching on the question “How does a person really love themselves?” and how to go from “knowing in your head” to owning it in your heart.

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June 23, 2015 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                          • In the first Spotlight, Bari coached a participant on handling someone she was not complete with and really standing in her transformation.
                          • Another participant received coaching on Getting to the A’s and the distinction of Believing and why it’s a critical starting point in creating space for love.

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June 16, 2015 Afternoon FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                              • Bari coached a participant through several Challenge Your Thinking exercises around dating and another situation leaving her feeling super empowered.
                              • Another participant got to see her Old Story and Blindspot by going over her Reality Check in the session.

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June 9, 2015 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                              • Bari coached two participants through their identifying their Old Story in this mini-Reality Check session.

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June 2, 2015 Afternoon FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

We did some amazing Spotlights! 
                              • A participant got to see truly how to be true to herself and her vision by doing a Challenge Your Thinking Exercise with Bari.  She got to see that what she wants is possible!
                              • Bari coached a participant on writing a completion letter for a place of clarity.
                              • Another participant did a Challenge Your Thinking exercise with Bari and he a big breakthrough in seeing his awesome value.
                              • Bari coached another participant on completion and how getting to the final space of creating space in her life for love to thrive—the culmination of all her of her years of personal growth work.

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May 26, 2015 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on the value of getting complete and moving forward powerfully.
  • Another participant received coaching on how to know if someone he is currently dating is the one.
  • Bari coached another participant on how taking a break from dating to get to know herself will actually make the process of finding the one go much faster.

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May 12, 2015 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                              • Bari coached a participant through her Reality Check to uncover her blind spot—the one that was hidden from her view and negatively dictating her dating life.
                              • A participant received coaching on choosing completion.

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May 5, 2015 Afternoon FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                                  • Bari coached two people through the process of finding their Old Disempowering Stories–their blind spots– in this special Reality Check session.

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April 28, 2015 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s session . . .

                                  • Bari coached a participant through a Challege Your Thinking exercise 
                                  • A participant created her New Empowering Statement.

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April 21, 2015 Afternoon FTO Q&A Session

In this session, Bari coached a participant on Getting To The A’s question #1 and #5.

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April 14, 2015 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                  • In a Spotlight Session, Bari coached a participant to identifying her Old Story and Blind spot.
                                  • A participant received coaching on Getting to the A’s and commitment to herself and getting complete.
                                  • Bari coached a participant on his New Empowering Statement.

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March 31, 2015 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                  • Bari coached a new participant through Getting To The A’s with powerful distinctions in Believing & Completion.
                                  • Another participant discovered her blind spot when Bari went over her Reality Check with her.

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March 17, 2015 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                  • Bari coached a participant about completing module 6 and moving onto dating camp.  She shared about how powerful it feels to be expressing her fully for the first time.
                                  • A participant receiving coaching on spending time with women–how to find them and the reason it’s so important.
                                  • A participant shared how since joining the course her life has expanded in all areas and the importance of being vigilant about stating consistent with the practices.
                                  • Another participant shared about creating her Dream Board and how wonderful it is to experience real self expression for the first time in her life.

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March 3, 2015 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                  • Bari coached a participant on powerfully getting to a’s, writing a completion letter to her ex-husband and the power of not spending time with friends of the opposite gender.
                                  • A participant received coaching on how to cultivate her top 5 emotional needs for herself.
                                  • Bari coached a participant on how to deal with toxic family members, friends and ex’s who are not aligned with healthy thinking and how not to be affected.

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February 24, 2015 Lunch & Learn FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                  • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise around not feeling like she matters.
                                  • A participant was coached on Getting to A’s, writing completion letters and not spending time with friends of the opposite gender.

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February 17, 2015 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                  • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise and went over how powerful it is to be operating from reality instead of “story”
                                  • A participant received coaching on the energy of sharing her New Empowering Statement — how words really do create the world. She also shared how fun and powerful it was to create her Dream Vision Board–and how adding life and color to it made it even more inspiring.
                                  • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise around dealing with a toxic family member.

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February 3, 2015 Evening FTO

 Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on creating her New Empowering Statement and on keeping her transformation alive.
  • A participant received coaching about her most Important Values and how they fit in to the bigger picture  She also received coaching on creating the structure necessary to complete her dream board and moving into Dating Camp!
  • Bari answered a question about whether or not it’s appropriate to continue spending time only with people of the same gender.  The answer is powerful! 

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January 26, 2015 Lunch & Learn FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on how to conquer past fears and worries and how to live powerfully in the now.  She also received coaching on how to deal with a toxic family member.
  • A participant received powerful coaching from Bari on how to go from her Old Story to living powerfully in the present and in reality. 

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January 13, 2015 Lunch & Learn FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                  • This was a special Reality Check session – Bari worked through a Reality Check and finally got to what her blind spot is that’s been getting in the way her finding true love!

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January 6, 2015 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                  • A client shared that she is back and recommitted to finding herself and finding love.
                                  • Bari coached a participant on her how her Old Disempowering Story is still running the show of her life and how to get back to self-love.
                                  • Another client shared a her victory over her past and how how her life has changed in so many powerful ways and her readiness to move into Dating Camp.

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December 23, 2014 Lunch & Learn FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant on implementing new, powerful and reality-based strategies related to old fears (like “what if I don’t meet the one” and “what if I’m too old to have children when I finally meet him?).
  • A participant shared her experience in writing four completion letters to ex’s and a breakthrough in blasting through shame.
  • Another participant shared her New Empowering Story and how she’s seeing now that she can make powerful choices about where to live and whom to date because “everything I need is where is am” and “I can always make new choice.”

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December 16, 2014 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                                  • Bari coached a participant on how to conquer irrational fear
                                  • A participant shared how people are noticing how different she is since taking the course…no longer heavy, how things in her life are aligning so beautifully and how she’s never felt happier.
                                  • Bari co-created a participant’s New Empowering Statement.
                                  • A participant shared how free she feels since writing a completion letter post Reality Check and she feels super ready for dating.
                                  • A participant shared how using the MTM tools has helped her to not succomb to any negativity and how transformation is not linear.

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December 09, 2014 Lunch & Learn FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari did a Challenge Your Thinking exercise with a participant who was feeling down about what other people say and how others half her age are getting married and she was left feeling empowered!
  • A participant shared how for the first time in her life she is dealing with codependency and really focusing on herself and making space.
  • A participant shared how she’s feeling happier and more integrated than she’s felt in her whole life and how her Old Story is actually annoying.  Bari coached her through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise to see who she really is and how truly deserving she is of the love she wants and deserves.

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December 2, 2014 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant to a breakthrough in her Reality Check by discovering her Old Disempowering Story.
  • A participant shared her feedback on completing 2 out of 3 completion letters and the freedom and new awareness she’s experiencing.
  • A participant shared a revelation she experienced upon encountering someone from the past and the lesson she learned.
  • Bari coached a participant on the powerful of truly being detached and how to gain freedom from being true to herself.
  • A participant shared how powerfully she was able to deal with an abusive family member now that she’s “being the one” and living in the new paradigm

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November 25, 2014 Lunch & Learn FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • A participant shared his excitement to be completing module 6 and he is getting ready for Dating Camp 
  • Bari coached a participant on how to “stay complete” (even after writing a completion letter) and shared with powerful ideas on moving forward powerfully.
  • A participant shared a big breakthrough when she was tested (in her new transformation) and Bari gave her feedback on her new Empowering Statement.
  • Bari coached a participant through two Challenging Your Thinking exercises and the participant noticed how all struggles and negative thinking can be handled by doing CYT.

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November 18, 2014 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • A participant shared how gratitude has really helped him to move past negative thinking patterns and how things for him have really shifted in a big way!
  • A participant shared a big breakthrough – she in listening to other people sharing that related to the fact that she always taken care of other people and now it’s really her time.
  • Bari coached a participant on the importance of being true to herself by not spending time with male friends and to step past her resistance.
  • Another participant shared how she never realized how her ex’s were taking up so much in her life and realizations when doing her completion letters.
  • Bari coached another participant on the powerful of completion when she realized how she’d been keeping the door open to 2 ex’s.
  • Bari coached a participant on a special exercise that would allow her to nurture her inner child to get complete with the past and move powerfully into her new reality.
  • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise regarding someone in her life that she was trying to change.

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November 11, 2014 Lunch & Learn FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • Bari coached a participant in creating her New Empowering Statement and how to create it from her Reality Check answers.  She got clear on her Old Disempowering Story.
  • A participant shared her major breakthrough and what her Old Story blind spot is and her commitment to herself to complete her Completion Letters, exercises and date to complete her New Empowering Statement by.
  • Bari coached a participant on moving forward and beyond her Old Story and getting past the “warm bath” feeling of staying in the old paradigm.
  • Bari coached a participant ‘who always has guy friends around” on getting complete powerfully to make space for her one.
  • A participant worked with Bari on Challenging Her Thinking and she felt so free from having done it.

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November 4, 2014 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • A participant shared her experience in opening up to her parents about FTO and the healing that came from it.
  • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise about her “story” and how it’s been dictating her not feeling worthy of a love story–and how it was manifesting her her inability to get over her ex. A big “aha moment”!
  • Bari coached a participant through her Reality Check to finally understand what her “old story” is and how it’s been dictating the men she’s been attracting.
  • We discussed how transformation is a process and that life is not static or “black and white.”
  • In the session, Bari coached on how to begin to heal the wounded inner child, high vibration ways of being and the importance of self love and “being the one.”

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October 28, 2014 Lunch & Learn FTO Q&A Session

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October 21, 2014 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • A participant shared her experience in getting complete with male friends and how much came up for her. She also shared about how much anger she’d been suppressing from the past and how she is looking at it now. We discussed having powerful boundaries and how she realized “I am a separate person. I am not bleeding into other people.”
  • Bari coached a participant that “you don’t die from feeling your feelings”–it’s liberating!
  • A participant shared her joy! In her old life, old story, she was worthless and now she is tapping into joy and her environment is responding. It was a discussion about being fully alive.
  • Another client shared how she is coming out her cocoon and how powerful it feels to challenge her fears
  • Another client is being powerful and doing things that make her feel good–looking at how she wants to feel when she’s with her one.
  • A participant shared how much growth she’s experience and how the growth continues in Dating Camp.

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October 14, 2014 Lunch & Learn FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

  • A participant who just completed Finding The One, shared her biggest breakthroughs.
  • Bari coached a participant who completed her reality check about her Old Story and how it’s dictated her and choices forever.
  • Bari  coached a participant on how to create space with male friends that she felt challenged to let go of.
  • Bari coached a participant on getting complete now when she shared her challenge in letting go of an ex-boyfriend who didn’t share her religious values and who wasn’t giving her the support she needed in their 2 year relationship.

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October 07, 2014 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

          • A new participant shared her favorite and motivating slogans and Bari coached her through a big distinction in marriage readiness in Getting to the A’s.
          • A participant shared how free and grateful she feels since starting the course and why.  She’s actually feeling the possibility of her future husband now!
          • A participant shared about her she is seeing her mom in a whole new light since starting the course and how powerful she feels.
          • Bari coached a participant in how she needs to live her joy and break free from the past that has been keeping her in “no-joy” zone.  She grew up feeling “why bother it won’t work anyway” and now she’s free to break through and create the life she really wants.

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September 23, 2014 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

          • Bari did a Challenge Your Thinking exercise with someone who always worries that “the ball is going to drop”…
          • A participants shared how free and powerful she feels from finally getting complete with her ex-husband

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September 16, 2014 Lunch & Learn FTO Q&A Session

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

              • Bari went over a participant’s Reality Check and he got clear on his Old Story and how it’s been running him.  Super courageous and open guy! 
              • A participant shared how powerful she feels since doing her Reality Check and how it’s affecting her day to day life in a positive way.  She’s becoming an observer of herself.
              • A participant worked on Getting To The A’s and saw that having males friends, ex’s who didn’t work out is keeping her from being 100% available. 
              • Bari started working a Reality Check with a client who got to see the paradox in her readiness.  You can’t be open and have walls up at the same time.
              • Another participant will end an unhealthy relationship today since he’s everything she doesn’t want (and reflects her limitations).

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September 9, 2014 Evening FTO Q&A Session

What happened in tonight’s coaching session . . .

              • Bari coached several participants through Getting To The A’s. One person shared about closure, declaring completion and how great it felt after so many years to put it all on paper. Completion from the past creates space.
              • A participant shared several of her aha moments in the course and how she is seeing all new possibilities for her life and love life.
              • Bari coached a participant through a Challenge Your Thinking exercise that revealed how she easily we can shift from feeling frustrated to empowered.
              • A participant shared her New Empowering Statement as a victory over her Old Story that had been running her for so long.

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August 26, 2014 Evening FTO Q&A Session

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Group Coaching Call session 08-19-2014

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Group Coaching Call session 08-18-2014

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Group Coaching Call session 08-12-2014

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Group Coaching Call session 08-04-2014

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Group Coaching Call session 07-29-2014

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Group Coaching Call session 07-22-2014

Bari coached participants on and participants shared . . .

                  • Getting to the A’s and how “believing is seeing”
                  • Powerful effects of completion letters
                  • A powerful empowering statement
                  • A breakthrough in seeing that happiness truly does come from within

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Group Coaching Call session 07-21-2014

What happened in today’s coaching session . . .

                  • A participant shared how much she loves her vision board and how much it supports her vision
                  • Bari coached two participants through powerful Challenge Your Thinking Exercises
                  • A Challenge Your Thinking exercise revealed how important self care and how without it we can feel like our old story is running the show and not even know it

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Group Coaching Call session 07-08-2014

Bari coached participants on how to . . .

                  • Sum up an old story and how to transcend it
                  • Challenge Your Thinking to release yourself from a persistent complaint
                  • “Don’t make up cinderella stories” breakthrough.
                  • Show up with an open mind in order to change your reality

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Group Coaching Call session 07-07-2014

Bari coached participants on how to . . .

                  • Challenge Your Thinking when attending an event that seemed to be disappointing . . . and the truth around how to becoming peaceful and self-loving
                  • Create space for new love by stepping out of pack mentality thinking
                  • Show up with an open mind in order to change your reality
                  • Date yourself in a new way by stretching out of your comfort zone
                  • Challenge Your Thinking to release yourself from a persistent complaint

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Group Coaching Call session 06-24-2014

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Group Coaching Call session 06-23-2014

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Group Coaching Call session 06-16-2014

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Group Coaching Call session 06-10-2014

Bari coached participants on how to. . .

                  • Find the one when all the women you’re meeting aren’t in your situation and don’t want to relocate
                  • Create space for new love by releasing yourself from exes
                  • Develop a new Empowering Statement
                  • Challenge Your Thinking to release yourself from a persistent complaint
                  • See an old disempowering story and why it’s always caused a participant to attract unavailable partners

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